
Why a foreigner?
Why does international marriage give rise to unfavorable criticism? In fact, no one is intending to put Russian women on sale or humiliate foreign men. This is the reality and all we can do is to accept it and find out the reasons of the popularity of international families.
We will begin from the choice of foreign men. Poor foreigners, they are so tired of mercenary spirit and meanness of European women (no offend to anybody), and all they look for is a loving wife, caring mother to their children and tender keeper of home hearth. And Slavic women, not spoiled with feminism yet, seem to be ideal for them. Another, but not less important reason, is the keeping step with fashion. "My neighbor got married to such a beautiful, wonderful, lovely Russian or Ukraine girl! Why shouldn’t I try? Am not I worth better?" And they try and those who try are in luck.
The psychology of Ukrainian brides is totally different. We will try to single out the objective reasons of such choice of a Ukrainian woman.
1. Scarcity of men in Russia and Ukraine. It is well known that there are less women than men in Russia and in Ukraine. Men die earlier, many in the prime of life, or are subject to serious illnesses. As a result, every tenth woman at the age of 35 can not find a partner for a marriage.
2. Bad habits. Our Russian and Ukrainian men enjoy a great popularity all over the world, thanks to their hard drinking. This problem exists in other countries as well, but not on such large scale. People are so accustomed to that misfortune, that if a husband does not drink, he is considered almost an angel, even if his character is far from perfect. The other problem is, many men who exist in Russian and Ukrainian culture often practice promiscuity, believe they should be allowed to have as many mistresses as they want and are often emotionally and physically abusive.
3. Crisis of modern Ukraine. Our living standards differ from Western ones. And the stability, which is a dream of every family, moves away further and further as an optical illusion. A decent woman wishes happiness and well being to her children, but she doubts "bright tomorrow" for Ukraine, so for her children. Therefore they try to settle themselves in more prosperous countries, it is their right. But hte first and the main reason they start looking for their soule mate abroad is that they have a need to love a man and to feel his love for them. This will be the one and only reason for marriage. It is a natural desire for a woman to be always with her man, to feel his presence, his love, forever and ever.
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